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Truly remarkable, memorably poignant.

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Well, that's me a sobbing wreck. Not least because my remaining parent is slowing dying of a brain tumour and I've no idea if she'll still be with us on Dec 25th.

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Deeply moving and gorgeously written.

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Heart-wrenching and beautiful at the same time. Terrible that this happened, and yet how wonderful to have raised a son that left her with that small and uplifting gift (“Look for me in the trees. I will be there in the trees.”) that will remain forever with her.

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Kathleen, thank you for sharing this poignant piece. I felt the sadness and the emptiness of Christmas without tinsel. We don’t often talk about loss and this was beautifully done. There is a void in a mother when a child is gone and this can no longer be filled. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you peace during this holiday season and always.

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The next time my pre-school aged son does something that makes me want to scream, I will hug him instead. Thank you for this.

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Shaun, thank you for sharing this letter as it is not one that's in your original Letters of Note Book. It is a sobering reminder of the importance of valuing precious time with loved ones. This can be so easily overlooked, especially when we focus on worldly things (I am guilty of this).

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