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Brown is as pretty as white or prettier

A fatherly letter of advice from W. E. B. Du Bois

Shaun Usher
Feb 7, 2022
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W. E. B. Du Bois to Yolande Du Bois, 29 Oct 1914. Special Collections and University Archives, University of Massachusetts Amherst Libraries

W. E. B. Du Bois accomplished more than most during a lifetime rich with admirable achievements. In 1895, he became the first African-American to earn a PhD at Harvard; he co-founded, in 1909, the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People, an organisation that has fought tirelessly for racial equality since its inception; and his influential 1903 book on race, The Souls of Black Folk, is considered a classic in its field. Such was his contribution to society that in 1976 the land on which his family home once stood was recognised by the US government as a National Historic Landmark.

In 1914, his soon-to-be fourteen-year-old daughter, Yolande, left the family home to study at Bedales School in England. Soon after she arrived, he wrote to her with some words of advice.


New York, October 29, 1914

Dear Little Daughter:

I have waited for you to get well settled before writing. By this time I hope some of the strangeness has worn off and that my little girl is working hard and regularly.

Of course, everything is new and unusual. You miss the newness and smartness of America. Gradually, however, you are going to sense the beauty of the old world: its calm and eternity and you will grow to love it.

Above all remember, dear, that you have a great opportunity. You are in one of the world’s best schools, in one of the world’s greatest modern empires. Millions of boys and girls all over this world would give almost anything they possess to be where you are. You are there by no desert or merit of yours, but only by lucky chance.

Deserve it, then. Study, do your work. Be honest, frank and fearless and get some grasp of the real values of life. You will meet, of course, curious little annoyances. People will wonder at your dear brown and the sweet crinkley hair. But that simply is of no importance and will soon be forgotten. Remember that most folk laugh at anything unusual, whether it is beautiful, fine or not. You, however, must not laugh at yourself. You must know that brown is as pretty as white or prettier and crinkley hair as straight even though it is harder to comb. The main thing is the YOU beneath the clothes and skin—the ability to do, the will to conquer, the determination to understand and know this great, wonderful, curious world. Don’t shrink from new experiences and custom. Take the cold bath bravely. Enter into the spirit of your big bed-room. Enjoy what is and not pine for what is not. Read some good, heavy, serious books just for discipline: Take yourself in hand and master yourself. Make yourself do unpleasant things, so as to gain the upper hand of your soul.

Above all remember: your father loves you and believes in you and expects you to be a wonderful woman.

I shall write each week and expect a weekly letter from you.

Lovingly yours,

Papa


The above letter features in the second volume of Letters of Note, and in Letters of Note: Fathers.

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Debra Goldyn
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Feb 10, 2022

Wonderful advice, that stands up today.

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Lauren Reynders
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Feb 8, 2022

What beautiful, loving and inspiring words.

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